ARE YOU THE ONE...

The leader (or parent) everyone counts on?

You step in before they fail. Fix it before they try. Hold it so they don't have to. Now you're exhausted, they're helpless, and nobody's happy.

(I understand how heavy that burden feels)

THE PATTERN NOBODY NAMES

Every high-performer has a pattern. Which one owns you?

The cost: Every fix creates dependency.
Every save breeds resentment.
Every "yes" steals capacity.

THE PARADOX OF BEING THE ONE

The more you're the ONE for others, the less you're the ONE for yourself.

 And when you're not the ONE for yourself, you can't truly lead anyone.

MULTIPLE PATHS. ONE OUTCOME.

Permission to lead without losing yourself (or your edge).

Program Cards • 3xBOLD
Invitation
The HERO Addiction
The selfish truth about selfless people.
Book launch in 2026
Intensive
Hero2Human
Stop performing. Start leading.
10 weeks • Leadership development
Immersion
Capacity Council
Reclaim Power, Health, Wealth, + Love
Annual • Leadership transformation

This isn't coaching. It's leadership intervention.

Brent Perkins is one of the most caring and present leaders in the marketplace today. Unlike many other thought leaders who offer little in terms of tangible value, he overdelivers in every sense of the word. Brent has helped my business but more importantly my marriage, my relationships with my kids, and even my relationship with myself.

Andrew Biggs, CEO, Better Than Rich

BEING THE ONE ISN'T HEROIC

Real leadership (at home + work) looks like:

The Courage to Be Authentic, the Wisdom to Nurture Yourself, and the Strength to Uplift Others

I'm curious but skeptical
Something needs to change, but I'm not sure what or if this is it.
Perfect. Start with recognition.
You need to see the pattern clearly before you can change it. Our monthly diagnostic will show you exactly what being "THE ONE" is costing you—in dollars and life force.
Join Next Month's Leadership Diagnostic
My team/organization is stuck
We have bottlenecks, burnout, or dependency patterns limiting our growth.
Let's fix the system, not blame the people.
Your organization has hero-dependency. Some people are burning out while others aren't growing. We can shift this pattern in one strategic intervention.
Book a Discovery Call
I'm ready for deep work
I know the pattern. I'm done with it. I need transformation, not tactics.
Welcome. The real work starts here.
You're ready to trade exhausting performance for effortless influence. Our 10-week cohort is designed for leaders who want to stop being THE ONE and start being human.
Apply for Hero → Human Cohort
I'm in crisis
My health, marriage, or leadership is at a breaking point.
I see you. Let's talk.
When the pattern has become unsustainable, you need more than a program. You need an intervention. This is personalized, intensive work designed to create radical shift.
Schedule Confidential Consultation

Still have questions?

Or email me at: questions@3xBold.com

Fire THE ONE™ — a surgical leadership intervention that identifies and removes single points of failure so teams scale without heroics. Workshops, diagnostics, and executive interventions delivered onsite or virtually.  Fire THE ONE is a program by 3xBold and is not affiliated with any other brands or programs.

HAVE YOU LOST YOURSELF ALONG THE WAY

We’re told the truth will set us free, but what if the truth we’re living isn’t really ours?

You have the power to re-write your story.

Available on Amazon and Audible.

"Love the deep dive into vulnerability. The dedication and intro to 'Papercuts' are brilliant. Can't wait to see what kind of impact this has on the world!"

Kasim Aslam , Co-Founder of DrivenMastermind.com