Before we talk
Bring your list.everybody's got one.
The number you haven't hit. The hours you can't seem to cut. The time off you keep not taking. There's a name next to each one. Write them down.
Find your unwritten rule
A private conversation.
SHIT LISTwho and what I'm fed up with
SHIFT LISTwhat we agreed to, out loudnever agreed? leave it blank.
Me.
The blanks on the right are where the unwritten rules live.
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